In our life having a true & honest friend is a god’s gift. They never expect anything they are kind, loving, attached to one another, who always knows how to say things the right way, even when they are challenging other’s behavior. They are natural facilitates in groups, making the social round smoother.
Friendliness is that in virtue of which a man will put up with, and will resent, the right things & in a right way.
Fortunately, friendliness is something that you can practice all the time. It will almost never be wrong to be polite and courteous to other.
When to use friendliness or civility:
- Leadership skill
- While improving your skills in training
- Social skills
- Improving communication skills
- Management skills
Benefits of friendliness:
- People feel more comfortable in our presence
- Both you & other party open up easily
- It’s easy to talk on taboos which are actually hipped to talk on topics, discussion with good understanding
- Knowledge, perspective, experience & Sharing happens which brings many angles to your thinking.
- Your behavior & social skill get improve
- Establish good contacts
- Understand and learn how & where to help people
- You learn, that most of the time, almost every time
- You learn to take criticism positively, laugh on jokes passed on you & learn to crack jokes on yourself and make people laugh & feel comfortable
- It helps to work easily together
- Keep relations healthy & politics free
Tips to Improve friendliness:
- Acknowledge people you see
- Don’t be afraid to start conversations
- Check your body language
- Invite people out on regular
- Be genuine about your feelings
- Make it comfortable for others
- Offer up some real compliments
- Laugh at peoples jokes
Acknowledge people you ‘see: if you find people, acknowledge them by saying “Hi”, “How was the day “. Never avoid/ignore people just like that
Don’t be afraid to start conversation: When your start a conversation, don’t be nerves, & don’t be afraid off some person. Be bold & talk to other person, as if him/her your friend.
Check your body language: While communicating to others maintain a positive body language, so that the other person must be interested / can be attracted to your words.
Invite people out on regular basis: if you want to maintain a longer relationship, invite them out & know their likes & dislikes on a regular basis. So they get more use to you.
Be genuine about your feelings : Whatever your are communicating be genuine, do not think in a negative way while talking whatever comes in your mind just say be genuine to the person to whom you are communicating.
Make it comfortable for others: While talking to a friend let them finish the conversation & then you start yours, don’t interrupt them while talking. Make them comfortable while talking.
Offer up some real compliments: If you like something in them, just be open & say them. Ex: Your smile is good, I like your honesty, you’re a genuine person etc.
Laugh at people joke: In a group, one person makes jokes & it is the responsibility to laugh at the joke, otherwise he feels as if he did not make you laugh. She/he just wants to have fun for some time.
Don’t below people off: While communicating with people, do not just listen to their conversation, try to answer back in return . Otherwise they feel ignore / avoided by you. It simple means disrespect from you.
Friendly people are good to be around they as sociable, pleasant companions who always know how to say things the right way, even when they are challenging others behavior. They are natural facilitating groups, making the social round move more smoothly.